Pocket Change

Lori L. Embrey

Family budget stretched a little thin these days? Join the crowd. As prices are increasing for everything from gas to groceries, many of us are looking to reduce household expenses. Big-ticket items seem to be the target of family budget-cuts. But, is this really the best way to cut back? While it is certainly a worthwhile exercise to examine the immediate need for a new car, house, or a theme park vacation, it is equally important to examine daily spending habits. Chances are you can save big by stopping the slow leaks of cash from the family budget. Here are some tips:

Clean out your closet

If you need help getting motivated to tighten the reins on your own pocketbook, spend a day cleaning out your closet. Come on ladies, we all have clothes in our closets that still have the tags on them! Maybe there are even a few items that we meant to return-before they went out of style. We also have trinkets hiding in there that we never use and never should have purchased. Some were bought on a whim and others were purchased just because they were on sale. Buying "clutter" is a slow leak that can really add up over time. If your closet isn't motivation enough, head for the basement.

Give your kids an allowance

An allowance can be a fantastic tool for teaching kids to manage money and it can also help save yours. Decide, in advance, the expenses for which your child will be responsible. For young children, these expenses can include toys, DVDs, and treats from the grocery store. Did you know that a child will ask, "Can I have this?" an average of 15 times during a trip to the grocery store? For older children, these expenses can include things such as movies, video games, activities with friends, the latest and greatest sneakers (after you just bought them a new pair), lunches at school, gasoline, and automobile insurance. Decide upon a dollar value that will reasonably cover the expenses you have chosen. Clearly explain to your child the items for which they are responsible and help them budget their allowance appropriately. Once the fixed expenses are paid (school lunches, car insurance), your child will need to make decisions about how the remaining, or discretionary, funds will be spent. A parent's open pocketbook may not provide these same decision-making opportunities.

Added benefit: Empowering your child with the responsibility of deciding which activities and purchases are most important to them may reduce conflict in your relationship.

Give yourself an allowance

For all of the same reasons mentioned above, allowances are great for parents too! Sit down with your pay stubs and your monthly bills. Get to know your own discretionary income and save and spend accordingly. Do not ask your credit card for a loan when you run short for the month. You would advise your children to defer their purchase into the following month. Why not expect the same of yourself?

Pay your bills on time

Late fees can be brutal. Avoid these unnecessary charges by being organized. Set aside a special place in the house for your bills. Give the mail a quick glance on your way up the driveway and drop the bills in your designated box or basket. When you have a few extra minutes, organize them by due date.

Another strategy for avoiding late fees is to make automated payments whenever possible. Most companies will gladly draw their amount due from your checking account on or before the due date, free of charge. Some actually give you a discount for paying this way. Many banks provide automatic bill payment services as well. When utilizing this strategy, it is important to keep track of available funds in your checking account, lest you be bombarded with returned check fees and insufficient funds fees in addition to the late fees.

If neither of the above strategies makes sense for your family, you might consider establishing automated payments using a credit card. Your automated bills are paid on time and you need only worry about paying your credit card bill by the due date. Be sure your monthly bills do not exceed your spending limit or, you guessed it, there will be more fees.

Added benefit: Maintaining a good credit score by paying bills on time will also save you money as you may be able to obtain lower interest rates when you apply for credit.

Meals on the go

When my husband and I find ourselves wondering where all the money went this week, we can generally point to food. We try to eat out just once each week but, with our hectic family schedule, we have a slow leak that is directed toward the super value menu and the ice cream shop. These trips through the drive-through for our three boys seem harmless and inexpensive enough, but they add up over time. To be exact, $20 per week spent on after-school snacks and meals on the go adds up to more than $1,000 per year. When you add these unnecessary purchases to the impulse buys at the grocery store, we're probably seeping to the tune of about $2,000 to $3,000 a year. Patching this leak isn't easy, but where there's a will, there's a way. Here are a few ideas:

  • Plan meals for the week and then make your grocery list accordingly. This will help you buy only the things you need and you'll save on gas by only driving to the store once.
  • Have snacks on hand and ready for kids to grab when they get home from school.
  • When you prepare meals, make double or triple the recipe and freeze the extra portions for busy evenings when you won't have time to prepare a meal. You can also pack leftovers for lunch.
  • Pack your lunch 2-3 days per week. Despite the wide selection of lunch specials, this strategy may save you $1,000 or more per year.

Added benefit: Skipping the drive-through or take-out menu a few times a week in favor of healthier eating at home may improve your overall health and reduce your expenses for health care and life insurance.

Attacking the larger line items in our budgets may be a quick fix for the family cash flow but, making adjustments to daily spending habits is likely to have a greater impact today and may change our financial picture over the long term. My family has agreed to cut back on small daily expenditures, rather than foregoing the family vacation this summer-and all of the memories that will make us smile for years to come. I can't remember my last 99 cent hamburger.

Lori Embrey, MS, CFP? is principal and founder of Fairfield Investments & Wealth Management, LLC with offices in Pickerington and Arlington. Lori is also a frequent lecturer for The Ohio State University's Family Financial Management program.

July 29, 2010 | Currently:  81° Partly Cloudy

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